FOR YOUNG SUB WOMEN

I keep seeing young women who are below in their 30s that are new and exploring their sub side without safety precautions. So please, if you're exploring and meeting people online, watch out for these behaviours of unsafe dominant people:

• Refusal or not discussing safe words, hard/soft limits, or any form of consent protocols beforehand
• Pressuring or manipulating you to engage in activities you clearly expressed hesitation and discomfort about
• Verbal degradation outside of agreed-upon dynamics
• Implying that "real" submission means enduring abuse without complain, or gaslighting you although you express pain/discomfort
• Expressing entitlement to a sub's(your) body, time, energy, etc. Disregarding your needs, commitments, autonomy outside of designated scenes. (we're grown ups, we have our own lives outside the play scene, if you want to play your role 24/7, then that's your decision)

And for goodness sake, if you'll meet a stranger in unfamiliar place, at least bring a friend that you trust with your life and have him/her wait in the car or have a plan that if they don't hear from you or something happens inside the room, they need to get immediate help. You should never be abused or assaulted unless you gave your consent and it's still must be Agreed on both sides and must be done CAREFULLY (because some people prefer rough play)

Reality and what you see on the Internet is not always the same. Getting yourself choked by a person you just met, you can ask around and all the doms and subs who are well experienced would say the same thing. Don't do it, one wrong pressure on your precious neck can end your life or cause lifelong injury.

Remember that you have the power to decide how you should be treated.