Why do we normalize sins?

Salaam all. I'm just kind of curious about this dilemma as it goes against Quran & Sunnah. As you know, most muslims nowadays are just that by name. Not in practice. We see some crazy things nowadays with women taking off hijab, sleeping around, men doing drugs/alcohol, etc. It's to a point where it's been so normalized and people expect it almost which is sad. I recently saw a "muslim feminist" bragging about doing onlyfans and muslims defending her. This was sickening to me as this is completely haram and disgusting.

What's worse about this is that those who speak up about these issues are usually shunned and demonized by so called "muslims" not just on reddit but elsewhere. People are too scared to speak up about these horrible things.

I've distanced myself from the muslim community in general because most muslims go completely against Quran & Sunnah and even make halal what Allah made haram which shirk which is kufr. The hypocrisy in the ummah is unreal.

So I wanted to know why there is such an issue of normalizing sins, doing onlyfans, and such? It isn't befitting of a muslim to do this and to justify doing so takes you out of the fold of Islam. Of course, anyone who says it's haram and speak with clarify is demonized in the muslim community. They're called "haram police", "judgemental", "incel", "khawarij", eetc.

So my questions are: why do we normalize these sins and is it possible most muslims are just that by name?

Please share your thoughts.