Aftercare convo

I just posted here not even a minute ago but how do I bring up aftercare. Like I don’t even know what i would want for aftercare if anyone can tell me what they do for aftercare, even after non bdsm related sex. I just know I want more than just cuddles after but I’m not sure what else there is. Before dating him I wasn’t really that sexually active nor did I have a dom in person. I just want some ideas of things to try. Thank you everyone😁