What would you do?

I was NC with father since 2021. I cut off my predatorial father that exhibit traits of a narcissist. I escaped his home and moved back to my home state. Now, my father wants to speak to me. My cousin tells me that she saw my father visit her mom and asked about me and cousin just told him I was fine. I had a dream of my father last night and the previous night about him filling out a will. I am considering talking to him if I can get some money since I need money. I told my mom if my father wants to speak to me, my brother or Her or both will need to be present. I do not want to be alone with him ever. My brother reached out to me asking me if I want to be in our fathers will.

I am writing because I am asking for some guidance. I don't care for him but obviously I won't mention that. Because he has high narc traits, if I bring up what he has done, he will deflect, manipulate etc. or I can pretend that "everything is fine" meaning don't bring up what he did but have high strong BOUNDARIES. What would you do in a situation like that? How would I approach him now that I am aware of narcissism?

Posted Jul 2, 2025, 3:20 PM UTC

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