Is it valid ma turn off, if hindi sya nag initiate buhatin ung dala ko?

3rd date namin (i’m a girl) pero na turn off ako ng slight, kanina kasi while holding hands kami im struggling na buhatin sa isang kamay ung bag ko and ung EO bag na binili ko, I’m just expecting na mag initiate sya or baka masyado lang ako nag eexpect :(

we almost do what mag jowa do pero not sex ofc, we been talking for 3 months ganon pero im quite disappointed and dont feel happy sa date namin