can you manifest an sp back even though you met him online?

Before I decided to start reddit dating, I worked on my healing so that I can manifest my dream guy. And there he was, after talking to ghosters and catfishers, I manifested a great guy who is real, genuine, I felt safe, connected, and attracted. he have the traits i wanted for a partner.

at first we wanted the same things: a long term partner. so we both decided to communicate and "online date" since we decided to work on despite the distance.

when the third month came, i planned on meeting him for the first time (since he couldn't due to work, phd, and motion sickess): like applying for visa, etc and we we're already making plans if my visa got approved. but after a couple of days, he flipped. making the story short he told me not to come for the sake of our hearts. he suddenly realizes that ldr is not for him. that the waiting is too hard for him. of course I felt betrayed, and crushed, and disappointed. and i did chase him after. trying to force that ldr could work because I am willing to close the gap in the future but he woudnt change his mind.

it's been more than a month now from the break-up and 2 weeks since the no contact. btw, my visa got denied. so yeah, the pain from losing someone is greater than being denied a visa. actually the visa would have been my sign to let him go, but sadly I still think of him at times. I'm spiraling from manifesting him back and letting go; from giving up or quitting.

so to my fellow sp manifesters out there, is it possible to manifest him back? he offered a friendship, but I can't be friends with someone whom i felt romantically drawn to, specially now that i'm grieving.

your responses is appreciated.