I cheated on my wife

So I travel alot for work and recently found out my wife had cheated on me. So I confronted her like WTF. We argued it out and long story short we have made up and the sex we have been having is amazing. When we were arguing I made a couple requests one of which was a hall pass. She agreed as long as I agreed to tell her.

So I obviously made a tinder account. I very quickly found out there are alot of women on that platform that were picking up what I was putting down.

I was always forward, explained my situation and that I wasn't interested in getting too involved and I've had a couple "dates" with other women.

Last night was the first time I slept with another woman and now I don't know what to do. I suddenly have a worry that her and my definition of a hall pass are 2 different things.

Was I wrong to put myself out there? What if it she thought it was too planned out and not a spontaneous event? Is there 1st degree and 2nd degree cheating?

I told her I would tell her if I did, so I'm going to before we are intimate again because I remember what I was angriest about was the exposure aspect of her cheating.

But I'm definitely worried it may be over.