I need help on how to be or act like a femdom towards a man

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Hello everyone, first time posting here. I need advice on becoming a femdom.

I have always been a sub, and recently became a switch. I am bisexual and happen to feel more dominant over women and submissive with men. However, I just started dating this amazing man, who happens to secretly be quite submissive. Bratty submissive (meaning he will fight back). He is into rope play, straightjackets, being treated as a pet/sex object. He is not into pegging or spanking though.

Until now, he always dominates me in the bedroom. Sometimes it’s my turn to dominate him, but once he starts ‘fighting back’ i give in way too easily. I also feel like I do not give dominant vibes, even after tying him up in ropes and being on top.

I would love to fulfill his pleasures. If anyone has tips for starting and exploring being a femdom, please let me know! I am genuinely interested but just have no idea how to handle it. I’d love to learn how to give a femdom vibe :)

Posted Jul 4, 2025, 1:17 AM UTC

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