AITAH for telling my therapist to quit her job ?

So I saw my therapist earlier today and she got me extremely extremely extremely mad. So I was talking to her about dating and how I've always had bad luck with girls or women. My first relationship flopped in 2012 when an ex of mine ditched me cause she moved upstate to go to USC. She was nina and we both went to trident technical college and everything was well until she moved up state in Columbia to go to the 4 year university and left me back in Charleston. I still wanted a relationship with her and tried long distance but it didn't work out as she lied to me and cheated on me and said that she had to study and couldn't talk to me one night. She instead went out partying with others and f'ed me over. We broke up after that and ever since then I've had bad luck. My family tried to set me up with a lady to marry in vietnam in 2014 and that fell through after the lady's dad passed and she broke it off with me saying " I don't want a husband right now. I need to focus on working and taking care of my family members and siblings so tell him that I'm breaking it off.". Then my third relationship was with a lady named Kate in 2022 and that fell through also as I was "too poor" in her eyes to be with her. I was a struggling college kid and a film maker and I barely had money. I had to ask my sister and my family members for money to travel to see Kate and she demanded too much from me. She was a gold digger and wanted outrageous gifts and wanted Jo Malone perfume and other expensive accessories. I'm now resorting to having to go to vietnam soon and hit up karaoke bars over there to meet women as a way to find a potential girl to be my wife. After telling my therapist about this, she accused me of being racial discriminating people. She asked me why don't I go for dark people and why am I fixated on brighter people and asian people. I told her it's cause I was bullied by dark people back in my high school and that made me hate that group. I had lunch trays thrown at me by those people. They would take a lunch tray filled with spaggetti and poured milk on it and throw it at me, soaking my clothes for the rest of the day. It's not funny. She then said to me "Your letting that one incident at school make you judge a group of people who might have good people. You say you are tired of people discriminating you and here you are, discriminating certain folks and say that they smell.". That's not true and I told her that she needs to go back to school and take her exams again. I told her she shouldn't be saying these things to me. Am I an asshole for telling her to quit her job ??