What were early signs your partner was becoming a Disney dad?

I’m worried that my husband is slowly becoming a Disney dad with the younger SS10 because the older SS15 has decided to live with BM full time due to our house rules (clean up after yourself, proper hygiene, go to bed at a decent time, wake up when asked etc…nothing out of the ordinary). Ever since SS15 stopped coming over it feels as though things are getting more lenient and I’m worried he thinks SS10 will follow suit.