I’m 21, took two gap years. Do y’all think I ruined everything?

I graduated with a bachelor’s in psychology last year 2024 but I’ve basically done nothing since then. Most of the past year went by in a haze of depression, confusion and feeling of completely being lost. I didn’t know what to do next with my life, I still don’t fully know. And now I’m taking another gap year to prepare for the M.Des (Master of Design) exam.

I’m scared. I feel like I’ve wasted two years that could’ve been spent building a career or gaining experience. Everyone around me seems to be moving forward and I feel stuck in the same place. Even though I’ve recently started learning graphic design and creating artwork it feels like I’m late to everything.

I know 21 isn’t old. But these two gap years feel like a weight I can’t shake off. I keep thinking, “Did I ruin my chances? Will this gap define me forever?”

If anyone has taken gap years, changed paths or just felt completely lost. I’d love to hear from you.