Getting disciplined
I am on way to get diciplined with the help of my relatives
I am 20 male and I have been struggling for a long time with being disciplined because my parents are extremely nice. They treated me perfectly basically and always got me what I wanted.
Now I am 20 and I do have problems with being focused and studying because I cannot stay focused because of the lack of discipline and my room is always untidy my clothes and have a folded properly and basically every part of my life is undisciplined
That’s why I decided to ask my aunt and her husband who are together for the last like 30 years and are extremely strict
They do have two children, but they both moved out and they are currently living alone and both of them grew up in a rule part of India so they have a different mindset of how to treat children and they basically were extremely strict and mean parents
And they moved to Texas, so they still live in a kind of conservative place
And I have a good relation to them because my mother and his sister are extremely close
So I asked them if they would be ready to take me in and discipline me
They were kind of shocked and didn’t know what to answer, but I literally begged them and I said that I know how they brought up their children and I said I want them to even be stricter and I said that I allow them to use their tactics like corner time spankings house arrest or taking phones away making me do a lot of house chores and et cetera, and they agreed to it and Even a granting me free housing because I I’m currently I’m not making money because I am a college student but most of the colleges online and I rarely go to college
I forgot to mention that currently they don’t live in Texas anymore
So my life currently is extremely harsh and I am basically a servant in this house and it helps me to stay so focused on studies because they give me proper timing when to study like they say from 5 to 8 you are going to study sitting in your room and if we see that you are not stunning properly that they will punish me for that
First of all, if you have any questions, you can ask me. I am an open book.
And secondly, I would love to hear your opinion about my situation
Posted Jul 4, 2025, 1:22 AM UTC