Men are finally being held to the same standards women are, and they can't handle it.

Patriarchal governments basically function as dei for otherwise undesireable men. By removing women's ability to support themselves, it forces them into unwanted relationships for survival. The role of the "provider" was created to overinflate mens importance, every animal should be able to provide for itself lol that's not a real thing.

Anyway since women have gained financial independence their standards have obviously changed. Younger women especially care a lot more about looks, politics, loyalty, and emotional compatibility (this is a good thing btw and how it's supposed to work). Thing is, I find it funny how men freak out when they're treated the same way women always have been. They can't handle being judged for their beauty, it literally drives them insane, because in their minds women are asexual and aren't allowed to care about that. That's why they like to cry hypergamy whenever a woman wants a hot guy, but see no issue when a man wants the same. They're inadvertently admitting that women have it harder in dating (because beauty is mostly genetics, and men won't date an unattractive woman period).

Without the crutch of patriarchal governments a lot of men think it's too much work to become an attractive partner the way women have to 🤭.

Also "l00ksmaxxing" makes me roll my eyes because maximizing your genetic beauty is basically what women have been doing since forever, but at least they're actually doing something productive instead of moaning online all day about women's preferences.