I met my boss on Tinder. Help.

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Hello Reddit, I (F29) met my boss (M35) on Tinder maybe six months ago. We started texting and chatting and it came up that he needed an employee for his business and I was looking for a job so he hired me. Now it's been four months since i've started working for him.

So, to keep things short, when I started he was very flirty and I was very into it. Two weeks into the job we kissed and since then we began having make-out sessions in the place of work. I know, wrong, but it was too good. Nothing else happened. I invited him to my place a few times and he always came up with an excuse, so I stopped asking but we kept fooling around.

Now it kind of stopped happening, because he told me he hooked up with someone a few weeks ago and it annoyed me. I mean, all of this for nothing. I didn't say anything though, but stepped back.

The issue is that I don't know how to set boundaries without jeopardizing my job. Sometimes, he stands too close to or insinuates things and I can't resist. I want him to respect me, but at the same time I like the attention I get from him. What can I do?

Posted Jul 4, 2025, 1:29 AM UTC · locked

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