35 [M4F] #Washington #Online - Golden retriever gamer boy seeking fellow player for long romantic conversations over dungeon crawls (vm in profile)
Hey there! I’m a 35 year old, going on 36 (in July!) dad, nerd, gamer, aspiring game dev (don't worry, I have a real big boy job too), aspiring runner, aspiring musician, aspiring... doing things better in life person, and introspective soul living in the Pacific Northwest, and I’m looking to build a long-term, meaningful 1-on-1 relationship. Game wise, I'm into WoW, ARPGs, and precision platformers, but I'll try anything once. I'd REALLY like to be able to play together. I'd like the kind of relationship where we can game together, send each other weird memes at 1am, or spend an hour unpacking a scene from a game, talking deeper themes from Lord of the Rings, or debating on how Ryder got the money for an additional lookout in Adventure City. Let's be each other's shoulder to cry on, cheerleader, and generally the person in each other's corner.
I’m at my best with deep talks, shared energy, connection, and vulnerability. Whether we’re talking about the every day insanity of parenting, the meaning of life, or talking about what Olivia from accounting said about the drama last week. If you're totally happy in your marriage, I'm happy for you, but that's not me. I'm hoping to meet someone like me, who hasn't been truly seen in a long time. Not to be too negative, but I'll say i don't really enjoy "the chase" part of relationships. Butterflies, yes. Chase, no. Either you like me or you don't. 🤷♂️
I'd love to meet someone between 25-45 who's also a parent (not required), a gamer (highly preferred), and is willing to open themselves up to feelings and physicality. Let's put it on the table: yes, I'm missing sex in my life. You probably are too. But let's talk and get to know each other and feel feelings first. I want to establish an emotional and intellectual connection, make time for each other, play together, and then if we are feeling the chemistry, go for it. I'm hoping to meet in real life at some point down the line - that's fine if that's not you, but I'd like to at least fantasize about the possibility.
I ask a lot of questions, I give long answers, and I hope to get the same energy back.
Physically, 5'10", 258. Bald, beard, beautiful. Or at least some people here have liked me. My top weight was 280 and I've been working hard to keep it coming steadily down.
If any of that resonates, drop me a message and tell me a little about you. Or share a game, song, or moment that made you feel something. Let’s build something cool, even if it’s just a really solid friendship.
PS: Check out my voice message in my profile! I promise it's wholesome. Or at least as wholesome as you can be in the adultery world.
Posted Jul 4, 2025, 1:29 AM UTC