My guy friend told me I’m not a girls girl.

Today a few minutes ago I was on a call with 2 other girls and one guy (gay if that matters) and the topic of being a girls girl come up and my guy friend asks me “do you think your a girls girl” and I say that I mostly am but at time I think that I cant handle being a girls girl (obviously there are situation that you can't always be a girls girl).

He tells me that he thinks I'm not a girls girl because of the way I've talked about this certain girl. First, to clarify I don't think being a girls girl means having to like every girl ever. I think it means to have a girls back in a situation where they aren't looking/feeling their best or if they're in an unsafe situation, and helping them out in their time of need without an explanation and defending them. Anyway, he tells me he doesn't think I'm a girls girl because of the way I talk about a certain girl in my school. In context, this girl is a girl I despise with my whole heart. They have dated all their best friends ’ exes, cheat on their boyfriends, lead on people who are interested in them, talk shot behind their “best friends back”, tried to break me and my ex up while we were dating MEANWHILE having a crush on them, tried to get in between a friend of mines relationship

(that's I had helped get together and had been helping with making sure girls haven't tried to hit on the guy who is also my friend so the girl who is also my friend doesn't feel uncomfortable and helping them through arguments and hurt feelings + they both trust me that I WILL NOT ever have a crush on the boy she's dating which I will not EVER have a crush on BTW)

This is only so little of what that girl has done. And I have made it EXTREMELY known to all my friends that I do not like her and in my fits of rage, I have called her terms that would deem me a not-girl girl. I'm gonna be transparent with what I have called her. I have called her a Tramp and a Slut.

Let me defend myself before you make up your mind. I would never leave this girl (who has done me and a lot of my friends + others dirty) or any girl in fact whether I like or dislike them, alone if they were in a situation where they were unsafe of even if they was crying. I am an extremely sympathetic/empathetic person and seeing someone crying will immediately turn me into some sorta of mama bear and I will immediately help. I have also comforted and helped HUNDREDS of girls online and IRL through tough situations whether it's through breakups, friendship breakups, family struggles, etc. In most situations, I have considered myself an EXTREME girls girl at times. So it really hurt my feelings for someone to tell me I'm not a girls girl after the hours I've spent comforting and helping every girl that needed me. And I understand he didn't know about all I've done for these cause I don't like to talk about the girls I've help being to me its an invasion of privacy and its not my place to tell.

SO please be honest (I know that I'm not 100% a girls girl all the time), am I a girls girl or no?