I 24f feel like my husband 24m doesnt care about me

So this will probably sound stupid to everyone bc it sounds stupid to me. I cant understand why things escalate like this but this is typically how arguments go between my husband and I. My husband is on night shift and woke up at 7:20pm today, he leaves at 8. I've been awake since 9am so I was making my dinner but I heard him wake up and went to greet him. He was putting on a shirt but I tried to hug him anyways bc I miss him so I wrapped my arms around him. He didnt return the favor but I knew he was putting on a shirt so I walked back to finish my food. He comes in and starts talking to me about work while im preparing my food and then I sat down to eat. I'm responding to him normally maybe i had a sad tone but I was also just eating but he says "whats your problem??" I said "Nothing im just eating my burrito but it did make me a little sad when I tried to hug you and you didnt hug me back" he started yelling at me telling me to have a better attitude and said he would hug me before he left so I responded that I dont want to be yelled at. He kept yelling so I just kept saying that I didnt want to be yelled at. Then he said I was being a bitch and left for work without telling me bye. His job is dangerous and he could be hurt or killed just being there so it upsets me that he doesnt think its important to tell me bye before he leaves even if he is upset at me I mean damn I just wanted a hug. It also upsets me bc I feel like he doesnt listen or care about what I say or how I feel. He asked what my problem is but me voicing the thing I was upset about just pissed him off. Wth. Does he just want me to say "Nothings wrong" and act happier??