Relationship advice

Hi guys , M30.Working for big company, financially ok with enough free time, but good things ends here.Why is so hard to find and have a Normal conversation with womans this days? Trying a lot of dating apps (most of them such a waste of time). And no , I don’t talk about just having sex or telling me your deepest secrets. Just normal talk and friendship for beginning will be fantastic- later on who knows … Any advice ?