hiii pls share ur love stories, how u met ur partner, do u feel seen/understood?

sorry so many questions! I would love to find love it just feels impossible sometimes I’m soooo much and I do not mean that in a negative way I love myself truly but it is work to be me and I get exhausted very easily and I’ve been made to feel too much in the past so I’d really love to hear about other women with adhd’s experiences with love and if they were able to find a loving understanding partner - are they neurodivergent too ?