Ace seems so toxic to me

I’ve thought that Ace seemed controlling and misogynistic from the start, but I just saw how he handled the postcards in episode 26 and I was appalled! Especially how he talked to Amaya. He might actually be one of the most outright toxic people I’ve seen on love island. Does anyone feel the same way? Or have a more coherent way to describe how Ace has been acting? Sorry for the rant; I just hate to see the level of toxicity from men this season and need to vent.