I'm just from reading stories about a teacher of a  prominent girl's school. According to the narrative in the stories, the teacher allegedly took advantage of his position to have his way with the girls. 

Disclaimer. What am about to write is my opinion. You're entitled to your opinion too. My opinion is going to piss a lot of people off. Kindly stop reading if you don't want to be pissed off. 

When I was a young guy with women problems a friend told me this. The easiest way to a woman's heart is by being her friend. If a woman can trust you with her emotional problems sooner or later she'll fall in love with you. 

I quote, " unaona shida yenu nyinyi huwa mkisalimia msichana mshasimamisha😂😂. Ukitaka msichana akupende wewe kuwa rafkiake tu.  Muonyeshe anaweza kuamini na shida zako na atakufungulia moyo wako. Na kama mwaenda kutana mbebee kitu kidogo aone ni kama ulkuwa wamfikiria"

I read the articles and I was like damn, said teacher used that playbook. He befriended the girls in a non-threatening way, they trusted him with their problems. He bought them random gifts and treated them well and the girls ended up falling in love with them. 

I hate teachers that sleep with their students for several reasons. The game is rigged against the students. The teacher is a defacto situational alpha, an authority figure. It's so easy to impress a 16 year old who needs male validation and eats githeri, beans and undercooked cabbage. 

It's scary. Tiktok is not that a great place to find facts and statistics, but it's scary to see women post about losing their virginity to their teachers. A girl will post about having sex with a teacher or school staff and the comment section will be awash with girls saying me too. 

Why does it happen? Why will it continue to happen? 

Girls need validation from men they admire and men will always choose the path of least resistance to female intimacy that their morals will allow them. 

If you're a teacher surrounded by girls in desperate need of your validation. Your morals don't find the thought of getting intimate with them distateful. You have such a situation. 



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