39 [F4M] #NewJersey - S-type Casually looking for something serious

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OK let’s try this again.

Hello! I’m Sweettarte100 and I’m a kinky, slutty, big hearted romantic who is (still) looking for my equally kinky, slutty, big hearted romantic partner in life.

Before we get too far- I’m looking for a long term/forever in person relationship. Some distance can be accommodated in the beginning, but in person and eventually no distance is the goal. I’m into ENM but looking for someone unpartnered (but also ENM ideally). I want to be your main partner! 🥰 (also I’m marriage minded so there’s that)

Some basics about me: I’m 39, 5’7, smallish BBW and actively getting smaller (some pics on my profile). Couple tattoos. Very pretty 💁‍♀️

I’m 100% on the right of the slash (sub/bottom/baby girl etc). I like…. A lot of the things.

I love and have pets. I am child free for me personally, but open to other family situations for the right person.

My work schedule is a little unforgiving (I work in hospitality) but I do have free time as long as we can figure out how to align it.

I’m still in the fairly beginning stages of getting my life in order after checking out mentally for a little bit. 🙃 I want to be my best self when I meet the right guy, so I’m in no rush but thought I’d put some feelers out.

What I’m looking for: 29-49 give or take a year or two. Just be in a close enough life stage to me (grown and ready to do grown things but not so grown you’re slowing down).

While experienced can be nice in the world of kink, I’m open to newer explorers as long as you’re doing the work to educate yourself and get up to speed ;-).

Would love to find the Type A to my Type B 😋

I don’t want to constrain my search by using too many labels but a soft dom/pleasure dom with a healthy amount of sadist would probably best describe what I’m looking for. And maybe a dash of caregiver for good measure.

There’s so much that can be said in a personal ad of this nature but I’ll just leave it here. That should cover the bases. Looking forward to hearing from you. ☺️