PSA for Dom/mes: Not Every Sub Is Your "Piggy"

My advice is mainly geared towards subs, but since I am in a generous mood after my most recent send, I thought I would give you dom/mes some advice.

A lot of subs find terms like “paypig” or “piggy” off-putting if not outright offensive, especially when used casually in public posts. While some subs do enjoy that kind of humiliation kink within a negotiated dynamic, many don’t, and will instantly write you off as a dom/me who doesn’t understand nuance or consent.

Public posts are the first impression someone gets of you. If you’re using degrading language as a default, you’re not signaling confidence. You’re signaling laziness and lack of respect. Not everyone wants to be talked to or spoken about like a human ATM.

Unless you’ve established that kind of dynamic with someone privately, it’s much better to use neutral terms like “subs” or “finsubs” in your public-facing content. You won’t lose anything by being mindful, but you will lose good potential subs by being careless.