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2 1/2 years professional domme here. Take the time to learn before you dive into this kinky world. Yes everyone complains of the same thing I know. The fast paced, cookie cutter dommes are making our community less fun. The “unethical” dommes are popular but are they sustainable? If that’s your cup of tea more power to you but do you care when a sub ghosts you after a miscommunication incident? Do you blame them? Communication = trust.

There are hundreds of people you can get an adrenaline rush from… thousands of accounts you can get a quick fix from. But if you are serious about this dynamic, if you genuinely want to live this lifestyle….It takes more than two months of beta testing to figure out your niche. Read, watch, learn, create. Then you can thrive as a dom/me. Within this kink you serve a couple, not one or the other. You get a package deal. Without taking the time to vet out what you actually want as a submissive, you won’t find it! Learn what you want before you ask for it, disappointment is a two way street.