I have several hundred hours over years and years in warband and i like it - know enough to not be lost, dont play it regularly tho, i initially got it because me and mom likes the medival world (she once wrote a story about me and my kindergarden friends way back when i went there) so when i learned about the game i became a fan instantly together with wanting to do tournaments, dueling with lances as depicted on the back folder when you try win against the guy threatening your romance with a potential partner (never got that event tho).

Anyway, i wanted to buy bannerlord when it came out but didnt have pc at that time i belive and when i did i wasnt sure if i could play it, i still dont, so didnt get it.

But today i was going on a day trip around the second biggest lake we have in my country and we visited a medival castle/monestary/cloister of saint birdget which was a gigantic beautiful place and i got to try out chainmail headwear and helmet and also bought a PAX (peace in latin) ring and a knight ring replicas both in bronze among other stuff, i now have them on a bronze chain), after that i once again wondered if i would buy the game and i did when we were near home.

So now im wondering what i can do in game as idk much, can you have jobs or such? Can you become monk/nun or what can you do other than fighting, i know there are different quests but how are those like? How similar to warband is bannerlord? 

What should i do first?

What to do in game first?