3 date advice

I am a 31m and I met a 31f on Tinder. We had some great conversation and had a nice first date - with a kiss. We talked an laughted. I wanted to take her home, I asked if she would like a drink at my place - but my room in not clean. So I said we should do that next time. A HUGE fail from my side. Pretty stressful week for me so I could not clean. We kissed when we left and touched each other.

Second date was a bit boring - she felt a bit distracted and we did not talk that much. We were chilling at the river We did not kiss this time. I touched her a bit but nothing came back from her.

Today was the 3. Date and we went by bicycle for about 2 hours and had a coffee. She felt cold and again distracted we did not talk that much again. Also, the date did not end at her or my place - I did not want to ask because I did not want to make me look needy to ask her to come and we had bicycle clothing on. Also, we did not kiss again this time - also she said, she’s going to cook asparagus today. Also, she said next week she is very busy with friends. I was pretty disappointed and angry that I failed so hard on the dates.

I think its over - she wrote me every time that she like it but today she just wrote that she arrived home with her bike. And then did not write anymore.

What to you guys think? Should I continue. I’m pretty sad because I really like her.

Posted Jul 6, 2025, 7:31 PM UTC

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