33 [M4F] #Monmouth county, New Jersey: Seeking a mindful woman interested in exploring the art of tantric exchange

Hello and welcome!

My ideal situation is centered around creating a respectful and meaningful friendship with an affectionate woman over the mutual desire to explore tantra / karezza. Someone who understands that there is more to it than the physical. It's driven by deep, emotional desires that are sometimes incomprehensible to even ourselves. We don't really know why we're drawn to it, all we know is that our souls won't allow the longing to be dismissed. Tantra is soooo much more than a sensual desire. Yes, it's physically pleasurable but that's only the beginning. As the experience unfolds, it becomes deeply relaxing, passion-filled, and emotional. Beautiful and fulfilling. Healing and therapeutic. Nurturing to the soul. It's as much a mental game as it is a physical one. Because of this, we want a mature, safe, non-judgmental partner with whom to explore.

This practice would involve maintaining full presence with each other. Male orgasm would not be the goal; rather connecting with one another on a deeper, more satisfying level through mindful / healing love-making. I want this to be a beautiful, relaxing, therapeutic experience for the both of us.

To me, a true tantric exchange involves so much more than a simple sexual fantasy. Yes, it's highly satisfying on a sexual level but more so, it's a bonding experience between two people with positive, healing, harmonious effects. I feel like tantra would be a great way to re-ground ourselves in a society that continues to push us further away from nature.

My intention is to form a bond and an intimate connection with you. In order to achieve this, we need to take the time to get to know one another. Patience, not instant gratification, is key to developing such a relationship. Trust and comfort must be cultivated so that our experience unfolds naturally and without force. I need you to feel completely at ease and relaxed with me. That being said, I am willing to put in the time, effort, and patience required to form this kind of bond. Small price to pay for genuine connection and heartfelt intimacy.

Little about me: 33 y/o M, 160 lbs, 5' 10." Light beard. Athletic / fit. Hygienic / clean. Patient, professional, open - minded. Not weird or a creep. Completely DDF. Super chill and relaxed. Located in central NJ.

Going to send this post into the void. Not expecting any response... But in the rare event that someone is actually reading this and wants to chat, I'm here!

In the end, tantra / sexual exploration is just a means through which we are trying to better understand ourselves. So why not take the time to find a respectable partner?

As a sidenote, it would be appreciated if your response included more than just a "hey." A little effort goes a long way.

Thanks for reading!