Am I really the a - hole for kicking my husband out of my home?

I (26 yr old) was married to a man named Ethan. I was often looking for a chance to have a child, because it's my DREAM to raise a beautiful kid. I worked long and hard hours at work, so I can pay for our house aswell. Meanwhile, my husband was either at home playing video games or at his friends house or whatever. Even though everyone kept telling me "He's cheating" "oh he doesn't love u anymore" I still, being my stubborn self, didn't believe them. I regret it. One night I was cooking for a while to feed him. He then started texting his "girl bestfriend" I was curious who it was and leaned over to see what their talking about. I felt my blood boil when the so called "just a friend" called my husband, babe. I was so mad, but I kept cooking and acted normal. I knew what I was doing. He'll regret it in a few days. The next day, Ethan said he wanted to invite his girl bestfriend over. I tried to stay calm. I just accepted it. In 10-15 minutes, she walked in. Ethan greeted her and gave her a seat. He then poured two cups of wine. Who do u think it was for? Me? Well surprisingly no. It was for him. And the lady. After a while I found out her name was Sarah. Her clothes were really... Well innaproproiate. And she's wearing them infront of my husband? That was it. I was done. I grabbed his things, threw them out the window. He kept asking what I was doing, I didn't answer. Just kept taking his things out on the porch. He then walked out and cussed out his lungs on me. I didn't care. I was untouched. He then left, and a few years later, I found someone I trusted. He was kind, caring, and never dared invited another girl over unless he trusted them. See, sometimes u just gotta do what's unexcepted when u know what's actually going on.