I revenge cheated on my bd right in front of him and never got caught

Im F(21) my ex-partner M(22) So this happened in the middle of 2024. I had gotten pregnant with my partner and we had a beautiful relationship, he showered me with affection, we got through arguements and had our comfortable goofy moments. It wasn't until I was about 2-3 months pregnant that I started noticing my partner acting funny, hiding his phone screen, deciding that he suddenly wants to work out late at night but never comes home sweaty. Eventually after noticing this I had grown my suspicions, I remember the night I first discovered his affair perfectly, he was black out drunk, crying on the floor about how Hes a failure and I comforted him any way I could, I helped him into the shower and went to grab him his phone, I noticed a notification from a girl but wasn't worried. I simply asked him about it but he got defensive, and made up a lame excuse of "I add random people online because I'm used to my views being high" Kay, whatever. His demeanor threw me way off though. I wash him up and take him to bed, I fall asleep as well but something in me..forces me to wake up, like sit straight up out of my sleep and grab his phone, and thats when the truth came to light. He was cheating, sending nudes and talking about starting new relationships. Ouch. I confronted him then and there..and the fucker cried more than I did. He knows Im a people pleaser, empathetic and all that crap so he pulls whatever bullshit to make me stay, so I do- big mistake. Like..worst mistake of my fucking life. I find out two months later that He's cheating again, first time it was one woman, this time? It was with 11+ people I add the '+' because he also had multiple women on hilly & yubo. But I will be 100% honest, Besides it breaking my heart that my child's father was constantly cheating on me despite my efforts to be everything he wanted and needed, I actually cried so hard about the fact that he cheated on me with ugly women (it's mean, I know, Im mean. Im working on it..slowly.) by this point, Im furious and hurt. Every time I made an attempt to leave, hed guilt trip and manipulate me to stay. So I decide to get my revenge. Now cheating wasn't the first thing that came to mind- the first thing I did was give his location and address to all of his 'opps' anonymously. They caught him outside his grandparents place and they all fought, cool, whatever. So there I am, pretending to be on his side as he goes off rambling about the encounter, pissed. I manage to not smile at the fact of simply knowing I set it up. But time goes on and eventually I find someone online and become chatty with them. Roleplaying even. It wasn't anything weird or unfaithful, but It was fun...Eventually it did become unfaithful. Me and this guy got really close. And he was actually the one who helped me realize a few of my kinks. So I slowly stop paying attention to my partner, and more with this man I met, and this was the only time I've cheated on him, I didn't need to do it again. I knew simply enough that the man I chose would bring his entire ego and pride to a crumble. I chose a successful business man who was set up in life way further than my partner was. Anywho- how did I do it right in front of him you ask? It's because I was the perfect girlfriend throughout our relationship, never gave him a reason to worry about cheating, never made him question my love for him. He was fully assured that I was his. So when I started my affair, he didn't think a single thing of it. I took nudes in front of him, hed ask why- I'd tell him "well I thought you wanted me to take more pictures to send you while your gone?" And so hed help me take pictures even. I'd be texting this man with my partner laying on my stomach, right next to me, calling this man while he was asleep. I never acted weird or hid my phone because everything was hidden and locked, He still talks about me about how solid I am and how Im a loyal and loving woman...which I am. Until you try playing me for a fool. We've been broken up for six months now and he still doesn't know. Im sharing this to get it off my chest, not because I feel bad or want advice. But simply because I'm happy I got my revenge and I wanted to share it. He can kiss my ass and kick rocks.

Posted Jul 6, 2025, 7:40 PM UTC

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