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Toastbrot_Junkie

AITAH for refusing to clean up me and my friends' hotel room?

I (M20) recently went on a trip with my friends where we booked a Hotel for 2 nights. I skipped the first night and arrived on the second day because of time issues. On the morning of the 3rd day we had to check out and the apartment was super messy. My friend told me to get out of bed and get ready and I said "Why? Doesn't the appartment need to be cleaned up before we leave anyway?" He then said that I should help cleaning and I simply responded with "Can you point out one single thing in this room that's from me?" And he went completely mad and cussed me out.
Let me get things straight: I am not a lazy person, If I had made that mess, I would've helped tidying the appartment, but I contributed nothing to it. I've even helped cleaning up an even worse apartment last year where I also wasn't responsible for the mess and I've done my friend's dishes after a party without even being asked. Why should I have to clean their mess when it was all from them and they could've easily prevented the apartment from looking like sh1t by regularly throwing trash away and not littering etc.

AITAH??

Posted Jul 6, 2025, 7:41 PM UTC

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