23 [M4F] looking for a friend first, domme second in #Vancouver
As the title says, I'm looking for a friend, who happens to have a mutual appreciation and interest in femdom primarily, and if that works out, enter a dom/dub relationship with them. I have no interest in a kink dispenser or being one. I'm looking for a genuine emotional connection with someone before any type of play occurs. With that firm intro out of the way, lemme tell ya about me!
-I'm currently in school, I'll probably talk your ear off about everything I'm learning, might be a bit of a yapper but I promise I know when to shut up.
-Big nerd, I'm currently working on my first 40k army! I love gaming but don't really have anyone in my life to play with.
-big music fan, especially Canadian alt rock from the 80s and 90s, but really classic rock from all over.
-I'm 6'4, I have dirty blonde hair on the longer side, I wear glasses and have a killer stache.
On the kinky side of things I'm looking for a dynamic where from the outside looking in, no one would know you're my domme. I love the feeling of having a dirty secret with someone and the idea of almost being found out turns me on to no end.
I have very limited experience in being submissive irl. I'm eager to learn and very obedient and looking for someone willing to explore sexuality together when we've built that relationship.
Kinks I'm interested in: body worship, bondage, light impact play, collars, chastity, pegging, face-sitting, joi, cei, light cbt, slapping, spanking, spitting, choking, hair pulling
Limits: watersports, scat, feet, cnc, extreme pain, blood, knife play
These are by no means exhaustive lists of what I want and don't want, I'm still learning and changing.
Please don't hesitate to send a message, chat or comment!
Posted Jul 6, 2025, 8:56 PM UTC