Tired of father
Best wishes to all of you guys. basicallymy problem is that I feel constantly betrayed and used by my father, and the consistency and volume of it is breaking me down. This happens 2-3x a week every week. me and my mom work with him in the family business, for simple reasons that everything will be repod if we miss a few payments.
The entirety of our time with him is just name calling, yelling and gaslighting about how lazy we are and we don't take ownership of the business; but any independent thinking and it's how we're trying to undermine him and muscle him out of the business. he doesnt do a thing bro, not a thing; except yell at my mom and try to argue with me or feed her fake news (like I said xyz when I didnt) about me. even the good moods are just going at his beck and call; his whims and fancies, no recognition let alone respect. I didnt get paid 8 momths last time and live in constant fear of how money for my medications will flow through. I'm exhausted of this, and I don't know what to do.
we've got a nice little plan to move out and get another income of money; so while planning for the future isn't what I think is what I'm lacking; I just need to keep my mind straight so I can stay on my plan. Any tips/advice/thoughts on this?
Posted Jul 6, 2025, 9:00 PM UTC