44 [M4F] #LakeForest - iso asian secret summer fling

hey reddit! looking for a secret summer fling- let's see if we click!

Me: By visual appearances, I'm a typical 'dad next door'. I'm 44, attractive, in shape, active, educated, and fun with a bit of salt'n'pepper both in hair and stubble. I'm nerdy in the right places and easy to talk to as well! I travel often and value other cultures and points of view. I work hard to stay pretty healthy/fit and I'm looking for someone who makes an effort as well.

I definitely embody a 'nice dad next door' vibe- easy to talk to, lots of hobbies and other interests. I doubt anyone would guess that I have a naughty side. I am attached and seeking something discreet. Would love to give you a bubble of safe space to explore kinks you haven't been able to before. Want to try 2 guys?- Easy [as example] (I'm straight but have a friend this can be set up anytime)

You: looking for younger asian girl, but open to any age, really. Could be a college girl home for summer or local soccer mom- anything in between. And you can be single or not- either is ok by me :)

Will want to pic or video verify after a little chatting.  Ideally, we live close enough to grab coffee, say hi, and most importantly- see if we click!  Please reply with a little about yourself (age/loc/status)