To find your type does one have to settle?

Disclaimer: i'm not looking to entertain anything on here i'm just here to ask this question

I'm almost 25, female in the West

Having been done with studies I feel like i'm at the right time and have been for some while however like many others in my position to no avail

I wouldn't say I have any particularly high standards, just the norm/ average and I do think myself that I have a good standing in terms of family, looks, education, deen & general character development etc

But like most girls i have a type. Not really in terms of financial standing or looks or something specific. But in terms of character and masculinity. I'm someone who likes the traditional gender roles and finds a lot of the men in the market right now to fill that role

Many are too feminine by nature and I don't feel like I would be protected by them or feel attracted to their lack of masculinity

And i know if i settled and felt that way i would not respect him & wonder if I could have got it better & it would all go downhill

And i know the worst thing for a man is when he isn't respected so it would not be fair on him either

I just don't know where to find such a person