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I (infp, m, 36) fell in love with my friend's ex (infp, f, 34)

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I fell in love with my friend’s ex. When they broke up, she came to stay at my place with my roommate (her friend). We started talking, and I discovered in her an incredible sensitivity and depth of soul. I found out she writes poetry, and I think it’s beautiful. I had her take the MBTI test, and she came out as an INFP. Over the past three months, we’ve seen each other often, and a strong feeling has grown in me for her. She’s become very attached to me, but she’s not ready for a relationship yet, and I’m afraid this situation might end badly. I haven't told her yet, since I don't feel like it's the right time. But I will in a few months.

I never thought I’d fall in love at 36, yet it happened. And I had forgotten how beautiful and terrifying love can be at the same time.

I’m not looking for advice. I just wanted to share it with you :)

Posted Jul 8, 2025, 4:39 PM UTC

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