I got my life together, but was it worth it?

I pretty much got my life together. I have a high paying corporate job,stopped drinking as much, house, and a family. But it seems like no one really wants anything to do with me, and I don’t have really any time or energy to give to anyone at the end of the day. When I was broke and living alone, it was a completely different story. I guess that’s just getting older though? My guess is that others are tired and burnt out too.