Subs bashing BPD

I came across a page that was supposed to be support for loved ones of people with BPD, and it fucking wrecked me. I don’t understand how people who say that we can’t understand empathy can’t show any to us? Why does everyone have to be so mean when this is literally not our fault?

I’m doing the work and trying so hard and it brings me down so much having people just bash us as horrible people when we’re really not, we love TOO MUCH, we care TOO MUCH, everything HURTS MORE.