To the older generations, who were SAHM & already have gone through it….

What did you do when it came to finances? I know times are tough and expenses are high. But, did you really not buy yourself and just allowed husband to call the shots financially? Did that work out and allow for a healthy and long lasting relationship?

Did you just swipe the cc & if your husband complained about expenses didn’t care? Talked it out?

What did you do?

Specifically I’m looking for women who were able to make a long lasting relationship work and chose the best way to deal with finances.