She rejected me 6 months ago, but now wants to hangout…

From summer 2024 until early January this year I have been in contact with a former colleague. We have met up several times, and I started to like her. She said that she was not ready for a new relationship yet, and missed physical attraction. In January I wanted more than friendship and she did not, then our contact stopped because it didn’t work out.

Last week I suddenly got a like from her on tinder. I did not respond to that, and the day after I received a text from her. She said that she was open for a new relationship again, and wanted to meet up sometime to see if it could work out between us. The physical attraction was missing for her last year, but she also said that this was because she only saw us as friends, because she did not want a relationship.

What would you do? Leave it at that because she rejected you earlier. Or go on a date? I have mixed feelings about it…

Posted Jul 8, 2025, 4:51 PM UTC

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