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35 [M4F] #NYC #CT Fit, Dominant Lawyer Seeking Invigorating Chemistry

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About me: I'm a 34 year old married father of 1 - but I keep myself in great shape so that I can confidently say I don't have a dad bod. I'm handsome and have a full head of hair to go with a cute smile and a dimple. I work a corporate job that requires an advanced degree, but that doesn't stop me from having fun. I enjoy good coffee and good cocktails, good people-watching spots and generally making people smile.

I've done this before and my OpSec is on point - yours should be too! I understand that there's a level of effort required to make things like this work, but also understand we both have lives - looking for the right balance. From an outsider's perspective everything in my life seems like it's all together and you wouldn't expect to find me here. I love being a good dad, for example. But I am also a human with needs so here I am, discreetly.

About you: Married or in a LTR, but looking for something on the side that is fulfilling, safe and discreet. Preferably you take care of yourself like I do - both mentally and physically. You've also done this before and know how to handle yourself.

Let's find something meaningful and wonderful. A real secret relationship. I want to have someone to talk to on amazing days but also on shitty ones - and to provide that person with the same outlet.

Anything else you want to know about me, just let me know. Reach out, let's see if there's a mutual physical attraction and go from there. I don't bite, unless you want me to.

Posted Jul 8, 2025, 4:51 PM UTC

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