I was patient with a cougar from the gym and we’re finally going out.

From the moment we crossed paths there was chemistry between us, I (26) caught her (41) looking a few times and we did the usual back and forth of checking each other out at the gym. I was new to this gym and she seems to be quite popular, very friendly with the women but dedicated to working out and often very focused.

A few weeks of hello’s then I made a point to tell her I was impressed with how strong she is on a particular machine I used after her. She took this as an invitation to start using the cardio bike or treadmill beside me and we talk about our days, plans, etc. I often look forward to this because our conversations flow so naturally. Fast forward a few months and we will sometimes do a few exercises together and / or stretch at the end of our workouts. Again, the chemistry is unreal, her touch feels amazing.

We’re playful and I have to be honest I was pretty forward and intentional with my attraction to her from the start. We’re both take our personal fitness seriously and bonded over this. We follow each other on socials and share funny memes, she tags me in “gym crush” posts, exchange selfies, the flirting is now non stop. Conversations usually get spicy and we share things we’re into.

When we first met 6 months ago she had broken up with an ex, then got back together, and is now single again. It sounded very messy and he’s quite immature. This time when she told me she was done I shot my shot and asked to take her out when she’s ready, she asked me my age and I told her 26. Commented how young I was but she was flattered and said yes!

Buzzing about this all week and have plans for Friday night, looking forward to spending more time with her outside of the gym and hope she feels the same way.