Dating apps from a woman's pov

Guys often say, oh you are a woman.. You will get a lot of likes and matches, but the truth is that.. The guys on dating apps are either : • Not sure of what they want • looking for something casual • carries baggages of traumas • not over their ex • doesn't respect your boundaries. I admit, it's easy to get likes and matches as a woman, but the deeper level struggles makes it so draining. I don't know where on earth i can finf healed, emotionally available men in this era. Ok bye thenks!🫂