44 [M4F] #Central PA - Ohh my god it's that totally normal guy on Reddit you've been looking for!!!

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It's your everyday stranger on the internet trying to get your attention for that 5 seconds you can see this post! This is going to be a long one so buckle up! I have been thinking long and hard (HA HA if you laughed at that message me now because I am that energy). I see all the posts saying I will not change my situation, welp screw that, because we are all here to change our situation. Right now we are sitting there invisible to the world. We are closed off in the prison that we built ourselves. We are both trying to bust out and have that human connection again but we still go to bed in the same situation. I know what you are thinking because you are me. We are married, we go to work and daydream about people that we see while living that G rated life, we go home and waste another night with no interaction and ultimately no release to the pressure of life while we daydream about our want to be PG-13 life.

I am Married and you are Married and helz yes our situation is going to change and feel so good again. I am a no drama person and my OPSEC is tight you don't have to worry about me. I know every step our is a step that could ruin the lives that we built so the person needs to be worth it. I am not a cake eater, I can fill you in on everything but once I do you will understand. We have an opportunity to live in the fantasy ultimately this is going to compliment our lives not complicate it.

About Me? Please just ask me anything you are wondering about but here is the quick sales pitch! I am 6 Foot, 187ish pounds, bearded, full head of hair, active but loves ice cream, very educated, and can communicate like a real person. I don't send D pics until we get to that moment. I don't take life to seriously and love to laugh about everything but I do have a very professional career. I can also usually fix anything at home!!!

About You? I am not looking for perfect just perfect for me. I don't have a type I think woman are just inherently beautiful and can usually find something that I fall for. Personality is always a big plus! I can handle some curves but not big curves. I did grow up in the 80's so I was indoctrinated on Red Heads!

Some likes that may be mutual!

  • Music is life (Music is an expression of what we are feeling. Life shows are my happy place)
  • Horror Movies
  • Hiking (Not camping! Hotels are too good)
  • Travel
  • History
  • Mental Health

Lets break the normal tonight and finally see each other! I am never going to test anyone so if you want to message me honestly a simple Hi will do! Those intros can be so awkward I mean what do you even say to stand out from the crowd!!!

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 2:15 AM UTC

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