r/infj•
littlecat111

Do you get along better with girls or boys?

Question for INFJs only

I wonder if it’s an INFJ thing or just me - as an INFJ girl, I get along far better with guys than girls. I believe it’s because (1) I don’t like gossip at all, and many girls do gossip. (2) Girls tend to lean on me too much for emotional support, to the point that it’s draining sometimes. (3) I feel like I learn more from logic, which seems to come more from boys. The only girl that I am closest to is an INTJ girl (but very rare).

I heard that INFJs in general don’t like gossip so I wonder if you guys feel the same. It’s challenging in this case, because honestly it’s hard for opposite sex to really be friends.

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 2:15 AM UTC

5383
Loading comments…