A lot of men somehow still think that we should be desperate to get married

I've noticed that even in more progressive countries, a lot of guys are genuinely flabbergasted to find that you're not willing to bend over backwards to try to earn the affections of a random mediocre asshole. Like, it's somehow offensive to them that a woman would not have her entire life revolve around finding just any old man to be a live in servant and sex dispenser to. And then they're even more shocked and offended when you point out that they would not be willing to marry literally any woman, since in their mind the idea of equating a man's choice to marry as they please and a woman's obligation to get married is an insulting or even dehumanizing comparison. It would be truly pitiable how lacking in introspection they are, if it wasn't so disrespectful and tiresome.