Disappointed ETP

I’ve been watching this unfold for a while now and it’s time to address it. This isn’t about canceling anyone, but about holding people accountable—especially when they’ve taken strong public stances in the past.

ETP has previously been extremely vocal about how dangerous and abusive N is. She’s called him out publicly on multiple occasions, labeling him as manipulative, toxic, and even saying he should be off TikTok entirely. These weren’t vague accusations either—she presented herself as someone standing up for survivors and against abusers. Many people, myself included, supported her for that.

But now? She’s modding for him during his lives.

Let that sink in.

Someone who once warned others to stay away from this man is now helping him run his platform. She’s enforcing chat rules, banning people who speak out, and essentially enabling him to grow again on TikTok.

This isn’t just disappointing—it’s hypocritical and dangerous.

You can’t build a reputation on being against abuse, claim you’re protecting the community, and then turn around and support the very person you told us to avoid. It confuses people, silences victims, and sends the message that abuse can be overlooked if it’s convenient.

To be clear: people can change their minds, but when you’ve made such strong public statements, you owe the community an explanation. Silence isn’t neutrality—it’s complicity.

I’m not here to harass or brigade anyone. But people deserve to know what’s going on and why this sudden shift is concerning, especially for those who trusted ETP to stand by her values.

If you say someone is abusive, you don’t get to quietly mod for them later and pretend nothing’s changed.