Found out I’ve (28m) been hooking up with a much older woman.

Over the last year I’ve been seeing and having sex with a woman I met on an app, single mom, no parental drama, very nice woman. She initially told me she was 31, and I didn’t question it, looked about right to me. Most of our time together is spent at home in bed and we have some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

Well one night I get curious and look at her friends on Facebook, she only has a couple and it’s family, and I see pictures of the whole family from 2006 (19 years ago) and she’s a grown woman in those pictures with a kid. I’ll spare the details, I did more research and came to find out she’s actually 45 years old.

I confronted her with it and she denied it, I showed her my findings until she admitted to being 35. She said she didn’t want me to think she was desperate or weird. Now I know for a fact that she is older but I could tell she was getting upset by this so I didn’t continue to grill her on it.

I’m not even upset by the age, I do like older women and I’m confused why she lied because I think that came up literally on the first date.

The confession in this is that this weird lie probably won’t deter me from seeing her. She’s the horniest woman I’ve ever met and fucks me just because she can, it’s crazy. And she’s always trying to cook for me too.

From what she’s told me she’s been in terrible long term relationships and this gets me wondering how deep that might go for her to try to be the child free 30 year old that she might not have gotten to be. With us essentially only being bestfwbs, how can I be mad at her for wanting to just have some fun now that life’s all calmed down for her?

It’s a crazy thing I never expected I’d run into, I dont even know how to tell this to anybody irl. If you have any questions go ahead.