I’ve been married 10 years and I feel like I’m getting fucked.

We live somewhere that is very touristy. We both work in hospitality. My wife and I are both extroverts but she’s made a big group of friends and somehow I haven’t. I’m somewhat of the jealous type but not crazy. I’ve been lied to multiple times recently that came out without my digging, just my wife coming home drunk and seeing socials she’s tagged in. I’ve been a shit husband in some ways but I’ve always been open and the hidden stuff makes me want to rip my hair out.