Help me help us

I’m not sure how much longer I can continue like this. We barely communicate, and it feels like we’re just two people living together without much intimacy. I’m someone who could connect every day, but when I try to talk to you, you get upset and act like it’s a problem that I want to share what’s on my mind or what I worry about. I can’t help but feel like there might be things you’re keeping from me that are affecting how you treat me. We hardly do anything together anymore, and when you say it’s all on me, I believe it’s both of us and the miscommunication between us. When we try to talk about what’s wrong, it often turns into a big argument, and then we both end up thinking it’s something else, when really it’s something deeper. I’m just tired of this cycle, and I honestly don’t know what to think about us anymore. I feel lost. I want us to be able to communicate and connect better, but right now, I’m struggling to see how we move forward