This Isn’t the India We Want for Our Daughters

i was gonna make this post long time ago but this needs to be said. there is a gigantic women hate and minority hate growing in india. today on twitter there’s this girl charithra chandran who went viral. she was in some tennis match and if you haven’t seen the pic she is dropdown gorgeous. here is the pic

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/GvLXPNzWoAACYoQ?format=jpg&name=900x900

and oh my god so many people are calling her mid and other crap. example

https://x.com/ProteinImposer/status/1942521796886159377

she is not mid she is easily in the 1 percent beauty standards. but the people who are calling her mid look like this

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/GvL5rAXasAAJdKn?format=png&name=small

that guy deleted his stuff after getting hate but he always posts fake stories like how he rejected this girl and that girl or how these girls have this much body count and how he wants a virgin girl to marry. this is literally the indian incel cookbook. there’s other accounts too, like one guy i don’t remember properly but he had muji in his username. he kept calling every girl mid or ugly but then he and his buddies posted a meetup pic and they all had potbellies and looked like uncles in their 40s not even kidding. and they make fun of people for money but they were literally eating shawarma on a footpath

these are the people who call women mid and whore and all that. indian incels boost this shit. the biggest hypocrisy is that they are virgin but not by choice. if even an 80 year old grandma asked, they’d say yes. but now they’re asking for virgin girls which is impossible in their case. they’ve got bad health, no hygiene, not that intelligent and don’t even earn well. beggars can’t be choosers.

also it doesn’t matter if your girl is virgin or not. having a past is not a bad thing if she is loyal and committed to you. then comes another fucked up thing, the alimony topic. they think 4 or 5 cases define the entire marriage scene. i’ll ask you to go visit a family court or police station and you’ll see so many tortured women that you’ll question your whole life.

my grandfather was kind of a big man in the area not exactly a godfather but people came to him with their problems. and i’ve seen at least 3 or 4 women per month come to our home after their husbands beat them and they didn’t have any other option. they couldn’t even go to the police station. and this isn’t just my story, it’s the same all over india. women get more oppressed than men without any question. and just because there are laws to protect them which only a very small percentage use wrongly, that doesn’t mean all women are bad. but these guys still have predator mindset and some of them even justify rape which honestly breaks my heart.

most of this is just projection. but this actually hurts men more than women and for the right reason because women will start distancing from men. and there are so many creeps out there who see women as sex objects. the people whose twitter i mentioned are exactly like that. and they want to benefit from the old system but they can’t anymore because they are not the prize now. this whole alimony hate and narrative actually came from that lawyer who makes reels about how his client has to pay 4 lakh per month alimony. this whole hate movement started just because he wanted to promote his business

i got a bit off track but this predator mindset of seeing women as sex symbols is real. i don’t let my sisters go outside alone anymore if the place is crowded. i feel scared for them because of the things i’ve seen. my name is bhavya which can be both a guy’s or girl’s name. and i use telegram a lot because i work with automation and telegram bots are quick to set up. but i get messages from random strangers asking for price and wanting to chat and it’s really concerning

and another messed up thing i found is the porn culture. it is seriously scary. there are insta pages dedicated to posting leaked porn videos of girls and even minors. and the comment section of those reels is so disgusting i felt creeped out. some of those pages even had real rape videos and i couldn’t sleep that night. and before anyone says anything yeah i watch porn too, even daily if i’m too free. but not this kind of stuff

and those cheating stories you see on twitter, those accounts and tweets come from their porn addiction. they start thinking they might not be able to satisfy their woman either because of size or some fantasy idea of sex they have because of porn. and we all know real sex is nothing like porn. most modern porn is built around taboo topics like cheating and that’s what these guys keep watching and now they think it’ll happen to them too. but it won’t. and then they go online and project all that hate onto women

and when some girl says she wants to leave the country for safety these guys reply with shit like stop this bullshit you money hungry bitch. here’s the example

https://x.com/ayushjha__/status/1941601629935161764

they want a working housewife who also cooks, takes care of home, earns money, and looks good 24x7. another thing i fought people over was pcos. there was a twitter handle saying some guy he knows got love married and now can’t have kids because of pcos and he was kinda enjoying it and saying never marry women with pcos. i’ve seen women with pcos and it’s a really hard thing to deal with. if you don’t wanna marry them, fine, move on. but saying that loudly on the internet like it’s some joke can really affect someone who’s already struggling

i just don’t know how we are supposed to deal with this. because this is not the india we want to raise our daughters in. where every step outside means worrying about getting molested or catcalled or touched inappropriately. we need a serious pushback against these people and it needs to be harsh

on an unrelated note, one common thing among these accounts is where they come from. and most of them are from up, bihar and mp. not always, but majority

here is another tweet i saw while writing this: https://x.com/poonamkachanddd/status/1942733308988908025